Keiynan Lonsdale on waiting to come out to friends: 'It felt like people were deciding for me'
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Love, Simon actor Keiynan Lonsdale went to great lengths to hide his sexuality.
The Flash actor, 26, says that even though he went to a dance high school with a large population of gay students, he was afraid to come out to his fellow classmates.
“There were rumors going on around the dance world back home,” he says. “It was breaking my heart — I was going crazy. I was lying and lying and lying, doing everything I could to hold on to my secret.”
Lonsdale says he had to come to terms with his own sexuality before he felt comfortable enough to tell others.
“It felt like people were deciding for me,” he says.
But after having a heart-to-heart with one of his best friends, he eventually decided to address the rumors head-on while at a party.
“I said, I’m not straight. I don’t really label myself as anything. I have been in love with guys and I have been in love with girls,” he recalls. “That’s me.”
This article originally appeared on People.com
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