'Mad Men' recap: 'Severance'
Don, Peggy, and Ken think about 'the life not lived.'
Is that all there is?
It’s a question that Don Draper is probably asking himself right now. You know the old saying that those who don’t learn from history are doomed to repeat it? Well, we see that happen again and again on Mad Men, perhaps most clearly with Don, who can’t seem to break the cycle of marrying a beautiful woman, cheating on her, downward-spiraling into a very dark place, and starting all over again. Even at the beginning of “Severance,” he’s back where he started: selling minks like he did years ago, gazing at a beautiful woman who’s modeling gorgeous clothes, just like Betty used to do when he first fell for her.
In the background, we hear Peggy Lee’s version of “Is That All There Is?,” a song about someone who, like Don, becomes so disillusioned with love that the only comfort is booze. As Lee sings about a childhood home burning down—a good symbol for the childhood that Don lost early on, setting him up for a series of disappointments—Don’s stubbing out his cigarette.
Where there used to be fire, now there’s only smoke, and everyone wants that fire back again. Don’s remembering how good it felt to be with Rachel. Peggy’s trying to rekindle the love life she back-burnered for work. Ken wonders if he can revive his old dream of becoming a writer. Everyone’s thinking about “the life not lived,” as Ken puts it.
Even Don’s scenes at the diner feel like a trip to an alternate universe. When we first see him there, he’s telling a story about his adoptive mother, Abigail, who got a toaster for her birthday long ago, “fixed” the chord by letting her boyfriend wrap copper wire around it, and ended up blowing a fuse. “He loves to tell stories about how poor he is,” Roger says, and he’s right. It’s just the type of funny, sentimental story that Don might use to sell actual toasters. But it also reminds us about the life his real mother never got to live: She was a prostitute who died in childbirth. It’s no accident that Don keeps asking the waitress at the diner if he’s met her before. She has sex with Don as payback for Roger’s $100 tip. Maybe she reminds Don of his mom.
In a way, everyone’s selling sex for money in this episode, whether they want to or not. Don’s using half-naked women to sell furs. Ken earns a job at Dow because he’s married to a former exec’s daughter. Joan can’t land a big account without dodging double entendres about her body. When John Mathis tries to set Peggy up with his brother-in-law, Stevie, she assumes he’s asking for a raise. When Roger comments on the book that the waitress is reading—The U.S.A. Trilogy by John Don Passos—it’s like he’s planting the idea in her head that she owes him something. In Volume 2 of Dos Passos’ trilogy, two men find themselves in a diner, being served by a middle-aged waitress who picks up her tip from the table by “hoisting her skirts and picking up the coins between her legs.” After watching the trick, one of the men declares, “Sex is a slot machine.” In other words, you put something in, and you never know what you’re gonna get in return.
Rachel Katz learned that lesson the hard way. In some ways, her relationship with Don was the ultimate combination of business and pleasure, but it was doomed from the start. It’s obvious why she appears as a sexy model for the mink campaign in Don’s dream. But I’m curious about the only line she speaks out loud: “I’m supposed to tell you, you missed your flight.”
Airplane imagery has always been a big deal for Mad Men, and there are some compelling theories about what that might mean for the show’s ending. Whatever you believe, though, the idea of “missing his flight” is symbolic for a man who’s always jetting off to Los Angeles. California is another symbol of a life not lived, and not just for Don, either. “I thought I was really changing my life when I went off to California,” Pete later tells Ken. “Of course, now it sorta feels like a dream, but at the time it felt so real.”
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Clearly, no one at the agency is living the life he or she wanted, though it’s pretty exciting to see Peggy start to try. Her date, Stevie, is cute and sweet and, okay, not her intellectual equal, but who cares? The fact that she keeps her passport at the office means she desperately needs a romantic weekend in Paris, no matter who goes with her. And something about him feels right for her. Maybe it’s that he’s actually charmed by the idea of a “girl who doesn’t put up with things.” Or maybe it’s his response to getting a dish that he didn’t order: “What am I supposed to do? Send it back like a prima donna? So I can either be a jerk and send it back or eat it and look weak?” Pointing out that guys have to fight stereotypes, just like women do, seems like the perfect way to endear himself to Peggy. She has spent her whole career trying to prove that she doesn’t think, look, or dress like a typical “girl.”
Of course, that’s probably why Peggy isn’t exactly outraged when those sleazeballs make lewd comments about Joan, who has always used the fact that she’s a woman to her advantage. Though it still feels like a massive betrayal when Peggy accuses Joan of inviting dumb jokes by dressing provocatively. They’re the only two women in the upper ranks of the company. They should unite against their common enemies. Besides, no matter how Joan dresses—and she looks pretty professional to me—men are going to treat her differently. She never really had a choice. Her appearance might make her vulnerable to these men, but it’s also her only form of power, so it makes sense that her only comeback to Peggy is to basically call her ugly. (“So what you’re saying is, I don’t dress the way you do because I don’t look like you, and that’s very very true.”) And it’s doubly hurtful when Peggy suggests that Joan shouldn’t care because, “You’re filthy rich. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to.” Obviously, Joan is rich because she did the one thing she never wanted to do.
She slept with a client for money. Like the waitress did with Don. I’ve complained before about Mad Men‘s problem with fitting female characters a little too neatly onto the mother/whore spectrum, but I’ll forgive the waitress story line, because she has to be some kind of Freudian fantasy: She’s like Rachel and his mother combined into one person. Another waitress calls her “Die” (short for Diana), as if she just passed away herself. “When people die,” she tells Don, “everything gets mixed up.”
As he sits there in that final shot, like a figure from an Edward Hopper painting, Don is probably thinking about his own death. The rest of us probably are, too. So much has been made of the falling man in Mad Men‘s credits and the constant threats to Don’s health throughout the series that many people seem to believe the show will end with his death. But Peggy Lee’s line feels prophetic here: “I thought I’d die, but I didn’t,” she sings in the background. And somehow that’s way more dramatic: Don Draper keeps living, long after his moment has passed. Is that all there is? Well, let’s keep dancing.
- I could swear that, in Don’s dream, it’s Ted who opens the door, but when he closes it, Ted suddenly turns into Pete. If I’m not mistaken, that’s interesting, since those characters are mirror images for each other, especially considering their relationships with Peggy.
- Ken’s wife tells him, “You’re bored and angry because you know in your heart it’s not what you want to do!” She tells him to quit his job, “for all the people who don’t have the guts to live their dream.” That’s extra sad when you consider that those “people” might include her, as a woman in the 1960s who doesn’t exactly have all the options available to her that her husband does.
- When Joan says, “I want to burn this place down,” it’s a nice callback to the house fire from “Is That All There Is?”
- Ted says if Don can’t decide on a woman for the mink ad, he should use all three candidates: “There are three women in every man’s life.” Don has had two women in his life, Betty and Megan. Who’s the third? Rachel? Sally? Anna? Peggy?
- Peggy’s face lit up when Stevie said John called her fearless. Did anyone else feel like she was excited that John called her that? She does have a history of going for married men.
- Peggy: “Jonny Mathis. How many times has he showed up and people have been disappointed? You are not Johnny Mathis!” Stevie: “Haha, I’ve never thought of that.” Oh, Stevie. Someone please pat his little head.
Jon Hamm stars as Don Draper in the Emmy-winning ’60s-set drama