NEW YORK, NY - APRIL 23: Director Mike Fleiss (R) and his wife Miss America 2012 Laura Kaeppeler attend the screening of "The Other One: The Long, Strange Trip of Bob Weir" during the 2014 Tribeca Film Festival at BMCC Tribeca PAC on April 23, 2014 in New York City. (Photo by Desiree Navarro/WireImage)
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The Bachelor creator Mike Fleiss’ estranged wife is accusing him of physically attacking her while pregnant after he “demanded” she get an abortion.

On Tuesday, Laura Fleiss (née Kaeppeler) filed for an emergency domestic violence restraining order, according to her declaration obtained by The Blast. In the document, she claimed that on July 4, “While we were at our house in Kauai, Mike demanded that I get an abortion.”

According to documents filed in court by attorneys Samantha Spector and Lisa Meyer, Laura said that she is “approximately 10 weeks pregnant.” She and Mike, 55, already share 4-year-old son Benjamin. He recently filed for divorce.

A Los Angeles judge granted the temporary restraining order later Tuesday night. According to court documents obtained by Deadline, the order will expire at the end of Fleiss’ next court hearing, which is scheduled for August 6. Fleiss will have no direct or indirect contact with Laura Fleiss and must stay at least 100 yards away from her. He has also been ordered to move out of their home in Hanalei, Hawaii.

A rep for Fleiss did not immediately reply to PEOPLE’s request for comment.

In her filing for the restraining order, Laura, 31, alleged, “Our son Ben was in the house, seated in another room nearby. Mike told me, ‘If you have an abortion, then we can just go back to the way we were.’“

She continued, “Prior to July 4th, Mike threatened me that if I did not have an abortion, he would end the marriage. This was not the first time he had threatened a divorce during our marriage, but now, he was using this threat as leverage to force me to have an abortion. In addition, on July 4th, Mike made the following statements to me: ‘I am cutting you off financially Monday morning;’ ‘You are paying for everything with your money;’ ‘Next time I see you, I don’t want to see your stomach;’ and ‘You have a choice, you can choose. Have an abortion or go back to Wisconsin, but you are not taking Ben.’

“He continued to threaten me, demanding to see bank statements showing I paid for an abortion and the flight information to and from Oahu for the medical procedure,” she alleged in the documents.

Laura — a former Miss Wisconsin who was crowned Miss America in 2012 — claimed in the documents that “while Mike has frequently been verbally abusive towards me during our marriage, in recent weeks, he has become enraged, due to the fact I am pregnant with our second child.”

“Mike told me many times that he did not want us to have a second child. He also repeatedly told me throughout our marriage, and prior to our marriage, that he knew he would ‘have to have’ one child with me because I was 26-years-old when we got married, did not yet have any children, and he knew I wanted to have a family,” she said in the documents. “Mike, however, being 55-years old, did not want to have more than one child together.”

On July 5, Laura alleged that “Mike was even more angry than he was on July 4th.” She claimed that day that she asked a friend to come and stay with her and Ben at the home as Mike was staying at another one of their homes in Hawaii. The next day, on July 6, Laura claimed Mike returned and “angrily entered Ben’s bedroom looking for my cellphone.”

She asserted that Mike “forcibly grabbed my phone out of my hands” and then “exited the bedroom, and rushed to the top of the stairs.”

She followed him in an attempt to get her cell phone back, she claimed in the documents, “and he yelled that he was going to ‘shove me down the stairs.’ ” As he descended the stairs, Laura followed, she alleged.

But “just before we got outside of the front door, he grabbed my body, forcibly pinned me up against the wall and held me there. After I broke free, he continued to use his arms and hands to aggressively push me away from him as he walked outside the door, still not returning my phone. Then he walked towards his pick-up truck parked outside in our driveway, shouting ‘I’m going to punch your face in,’ ” she claimed in the documents.

Mike Fleiss wife Laura

Mike Fleiss wife Laura

Mike Fleiss wife Laura

As he entered the truck, Laura claimed she was “pleading with him not to leave me and Ben at the house without access to my phone” as she “stood on the outside running board/footstep directly below the driver-side door.” She alleged that Mike proceeded to “put the truck in reverse and began to back up, and firmly said, ‘You’re f—–ed.’ He then stopped the car suddenly, which nearly made me fall off the running board and caused the swinging door to almost close on me. At this point, Mike forcefully shoved me off of the running board, closed the car door and drove away with my cellphone in his possession.”

“I was extremely traumatized from the incident and started crying hysterically,” she claimed in the documents. “Our unborn child and I could have been severely injured if I had fallen off the truck’s running board or run over the wheels of the truck.”

Laura then said she “began to scream for help” and a neighbor across the street responded and proceeded to call police before driving her and Ben to a “nearby friend’s house.” The friend then drove her to the police station, where she spoke to an officer about the alleged incident.

On July 6 and 7, Laura took photographs of her injuries from the alleged incident, which captured “bruises on the inside of my arm, a scratch on my neck, and a large tear in the dress that I was wearing on July 6th, all of which were caused by Mike’s violent behavior on July 6th.”

Days later, Laura said that “on Monday, July 8th, I went to my OBGYN to make sure our unborn baby was in good health and to otherwise check the injuries I had suffered.”

She alleged, “I am afraid of Mike. I am afraid he will continue to act erratically towards me, verbally and physically, and in the presence of Ben. I have been hiding in a hotel for the past several days with Ben, and want to be able to return home without fear for myself, my son and my unborn child.”

In addition, Laura claimed that “over the past several years of our marriage, Mike has made many emotionally derogatory and demeaning comments designed to demonstrate his financial coercive control over me such as repeatedly insinuating that he would destroy me with his wealth and power” and that she has “spent time in therapy discussing the effects upon me of Mike’s demanding and denigrating comments.”

The filing comes nearly a week after Mike filed for divorce, citing irreconcilable differences, according to court documents obtained by The Blast. The filing lists their separation date as July 7 and also states that Mike has a prenuptial agreement with Laura.

According to Laura’s declaration, she states that on July 10, she “learned through the media” about Mike’s divorce filing.

The pair met in 2012 when she was a participant in the Miss America pageant and he was a judge, Laura stated in her declaration.

They wed on April 6, 2014 at his Malibu home in a ceremony officiated by the show’s host, Chris Harrison.

In addition to The Bachelor, Fleiss is the creator of spin-offs The Bachelorette, Bachelor in Paradise and The Bachelor Winter Games.

If you suspect domestic violence, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, or go to All calls are toll-free and confidential. The hotline is available 24/7 in more than 170 languages.

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