By Hillary Busis
September 08, 2014 at 02:15 PM EDT

Wait for it…

Actually, the headline says it all: Former How I Met Your Mother star Neil Patrick Harris and his longtime partner, fellow actor David Burtka, were wed in Italy over the weekend. The Emmy winner and frequent awards show host broke the news himself via Twitter:

Harris’s representative confirmed the marriage to People, saying that Harris and Burtka “were married in Italy in an intimate ceremony surrounded by their close friends and family.” How I Met Your Mother director Pam Fryman officiated the ceremony; Sir Elton John reportedly performed at the reception.

Harris and Burtka have been a couple since 2004. The pair’s twins, Gideon and Harper, were born in 2010.