Watch the first footage from 'Grey's Anatomy' season 11

Meredith and Derek are not in a good place when Grey’s Anatomy returns.

In the first footage released from season 11, Mer questions whether their marriage can survive in the wake of telling her husband that she will not go to Washington D.C. She’ll find comfort in Alex, but will that be enough? Watch the video below—and try not to freak out. It’s not like they’re going to get divorced.

Grey’s Anatomy returns Sept. 25 at 8 p.m. on ABC.