By Ariana Bacle
Updated April 09, 2014 at 05:38 PM EDT

Jill Duggar, star of the TLC reality show 19 Kids & Counting, is getting married.

Duggar, one of the 19 kids in the show’s title, is engaged to Arkansas accountant Derick Dillard, according to People. But don’t expect to see any photos of the two kissing until their wedding day: The couple held hands for the first time once they became engaged and won’t share their first kiss until their wedding day. “It was great to grab her hand for the first time,” Dillard told People.