Sugar Ray lead singer Mark McGrath and longtime girlfriend Carin Kingsland got married Monday in Southern California, People reports. The pair got engaged on New Year’s Eve 2009; McGrath proposed at the L.A. club the Viper Room — the spot where they met in 1994.

“After 18 years of breakups, makeups, beautiful twins and an unwavering love that provided some pretty damn good song lyrics, we are happy to announce that we are finally married!” the rocker, 44, and his bride, 39, told People. Their 2-year-old son Lydon and daughter Hartley served as the ring bearer and flower girl.

The former Celebrity Apprentice contestant and Don’t Forget the Lyrics! game show host will embark on a South American tour with Sugar Ray in October.

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