By Jennifer Armstrong
Updated August 27, 2009 at 01:03 PM EDT

Anne Heche got, well, awfully personal — that is, with digs aimed squarely at ex Coley Laffoon — during an interview with David Letterman last night. Calling him a “lazy ass,” the Hung star answered a question about what he does for a living by quipping, “He goes out to the mailbox and he opens up the little mailbox door and goes, ‘Oh! I got a check from Anne! Oh! I got a check from Anne! Yay!'” She advised viewers (and Letterman, though he’s already married), “Don’t get married. Forever engaged is a wonderful, romantic thing to do.”

Is this too much dirty laundry to air on national TV, PopWatchers? Or is she right? Does marriage suck that badly?