By Michael Ausiello
Updated May 05, 2009 at 10:58 PM EDT
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I defy you to find a single fan of How I Met Your Mother who isn’t asking themselves exactly that question in the wake of last night’s humdinger of an ending — which seemed to strongly hint (if not outright reveal) that Sarah Chalke’s Stella is the show’s eponymous mom. Unfortunately, only two people on the planet know the answer. Fortunately, I just got off the phone with one of ’em –executive producer Carter Bays!

Is Stella the mother?
I won’t say whether she’s the mother or not, [but] we were definitely very careful in the wording of the narration. Obviously, we’re not going to say, ‘Okay, here she is! Show’s over.”

Was it an intentional fake-out?

BAYS: Nothing’s a fake-out on this show. We established very early on

that this is a very windy, twisty story, and the message of the show is

there’s a ridiculous series of events that has to happen before this

guy meets the woman he marries… I will say this about the next two

episodes: Everything will be made clear and it will move the ball


You certainly got people talking.

BAYS: We freaked out a ton of people. We’ve never really kept a big

secret from the audience. And what secrets we do have we usually tell

people and there are usually spoilers floating around. And this kind of

felt like, “Let’s try and do something that takes everyone by surprise

and really blow people’s minds.” And I think we did it.

What kind of reaction have you been getting?

BAYS: It seems to be split 50/50; some people loved it but a lot of

people really hated it. And I certainly don’t want to tell you that I

like it when people hate my show, but knowing where the next two

episodes go, I feel like those are both legitimate reactions and both

what we were going for.

Does the yellow umbrella belong to Stella?

BAYS: I can’t say one way or the other.

Can you give me a preview of next week’s episode?

BAYS: We’ll reveal why Ted running into her again is such huge moment.

He already ran into her once before and didn’t do anything, but this

one has more meaning and we’ll find out why next week.

Is it your plan to hold off on confirming the identity of the mother is until the final episode of the series?

BAYS: That’s always been the plan, but obviously we have a lot of options at our fingertips.

Which side of the 50/50 split do you fall on? And how do you think Stella figures into the Mother mystery? Weigh in below! And then check out Ask Ausiello on Thursday to see out what else Bays told me about this season’s final two episodes.

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