(www.therules Whether you think the Rules book is outdated man-trappin’ hooey or dating gospel, its official site boasts a perfect marriage of style and content. Pink-and-purple froufrou graphics — heart-shaped hyperlinks, luminescent engagement rings — tell-all message boards, and author-answered E-mail advice column (typical query: ”Should I answer his E-mail?”) should leave Rules girls, anyway, in a swoon. C+