By Nikki Amdur
Updated August 02, 1996 at 04:00 AM EDT

Just get dumped? Meet Breakup Girl, your guide to Splitsville (pop. 3: you, Ben, and Jerry). She’ll help you through those initial weak moments (”I never want to see you again…unless you’re wearing those jeans”), make sure you know your rights (Who gets the cat? The neighborhood Starbucks? The gym membership?), and hasten the healing process with ”personal fulfillment projects” (like sewing a voodoo doll of you-know-who). He Loved Me, He Loves Me Not has chapters on how to handle challenges like ”Other People’s Weddings” and ”How Your Mother Will React” — and even recipes for ”Heartbreak Hummus” and ”Men Are Pigs-in-a-Blanket.” And if you’re still bummed about joining Generation Ex, there are enough quizzes, work sheets, and checklists to get you through those lonely nights. B